Favorite Grandchildren

Favoring overall is human nature.

Having bias is normal.

As a mom of two children,

I am trying my best to give my girls equity.

I've always been honest about how I feel.

I love my girls differently base on their

personal needs and their own individual person.

I do not love them equally because you cannot

love them equal when they both have different needs and wants.

Just recently I found out something that have opened my eyes.

I would say it has made me realized how important

my children's and my worth is as a human being to certain people.

Mindfullness

My eldest daughter's 7th birthday just recently passed.

Things that I've learned so far as a Nyab or just a human being:

1. Mind the people that matter,

2. Ignore those that don't.

3. Love myself, prioritize myself and my family.

4. Avoid negative people.

5. Think positive and look only at my goals.

6. Address before I stress.

7. Be patient and kind.

8. Always be true to myself and never try to satisfy anyone.

9. Eat well, sleep well, and grow.

10. No one loves me more than I love myself (maybe except my mom).